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bluebell, clematis montana, crocus, ditches, Elder, gardening, herb garden, herbs, hyacinth, mole hill, ponds, snowdrops, stinging nettles, viburnum bodnantense, vole hole, winter aconite, witch-hazel

Part of our garden as seen from near the house. This photo was taken on Sunday afternoon when it was still quite breezy. We had great plans for our garden when we first moved in nine years ago but because of a number of reasons we have had to delay doing most of the work. Maybe, once Richard is retired and not travelling away from home so much, we can get on with it!
I am surprised at how quickly this year is speeding past. Christmas was a bit of a non-event – I can’t remember much about it at all – and since then the days and weeks have merged together into a bit of a blur and here we are at the beginning of March!
We seem to have been alternating between days of sun and days of gloom and/or rain recently. Friday began with frost and continued with bright sunshine and white clouds all day. Elinor has yet another streaming, heavy cold and took the day off college. Richard has started taking every Friday off work as he has been given extra pre-retirement leave. I went with him to Bungay where he called in at the barber’s shop for a haircut while I went to the bank and then to the post office. We then drove to Harleston which is just over the border into Norfolk, where we bought an enormous 25 litre container of de-ionised water for my iron, steam mop and steam cleaner.

My Witch-hazel in a pot by the front-door. Cynthia Reyes asked me to describe the scent of the flowers. I have had great difficulty trying to think of an adjective to describe the scent. It isn’t a floral smell at all and only smells slightly like the smell of the astringent made from the leaves and bark. I then remembered a book I loved reading as a girl and also read to both my daughters when they were small – ‘The Children of Green Knowe’ by Lucy M Boston. In it someone says Witch-hazel flowers smell like something to eat and I think that is a good description. I would say that the scent is like that of warm, spicy yeast buns or bread.
After lunch I went into the garden and stayed out there until just after 5.30 pm! Heaven! I have been doing a little garden tidying whenever I have had a moment and so far I have reduced the size of a few perennial herbs and taken out completely a lot of tired and woody plants from my herb garden. When the chance of all frost has gone I will replace them with new ones. I took some cuttings from my elderly thyme last year so those will go in and there are some little seedling chive plants coming up in the wrong places which will be transplanted to the right places. Other herbs will be replaced when I get the opportunity. I tend not to grow perennial herbs from seed (in fact I haven’t grown anything from seed for a long time – lack of time mainly). I only usually need one plant of each herb so I buy them from the garden centre – I find taking cuttings from perennials easy if I need more. I love basil and one day will grow some more from seed along with parsley and other annuals. Meanwhile, supermarkets sell pots of annual herbs for cooking which can be re-potted and grown on and garden centres sell them quite cheaply too. I hope to get a drying cabinet to dry my herbs one day. Herbs attract so many lovely insects so I let them flower. Birds visit the herbs to eat the insects and the seeds too.

My rather sad-looking herb garden at the front of the house. I am hoping that by the summer it will be full of lush, green growth with mauve and cream and yellow flowers visited by bees and butterflies.
More recently I have been clearing weeds and moss from the paths and trimming the lawn edges back away from the paths. A tiring, back-breaking job but very satisfying because all looks so neat and tidy when it is done. I finished the job on Friday!
I also cut right back an enormous Clematis Montana ‘Rubens’ which was not only growing well along its trellis but had spread across to the shed and was trying to smother it and was also growing in the other direction towards the greenhouse. I realise that this is the wrong time of year to prune Clematis Montana but I had attempted it last summer and failed miserably. It grew so fast because of all the rain we had had and any attempt at pruning seemed to encourage it to grow faster. It won’t flower this year I know, but Richard will be able to re-paint the shed and we have regained about 3′ x 10′ of garden!

The bald and diminished Clematis. Not a very professional job but I didn’t want to take any more away in case I killed it!
My mother got a lift to her church yesterday! I spoke to a lady about it a month ago and had almost given up on her remembering or doing anything about it. However, we have a result at last! I had begun to find that I was being expected to give other people lifts home as well. I don’t like to think of elderly people being stranded but it was adding quite a bit to my mileage and driving time and, well, who was taking them there? Couldn’t they take their passenger home again?
Richard went back to see the clinician at the hospital two weeks ago and was given the bad news that he has osteoporosis. He should have been told before Christmas but the doctor in charge forgot and had also forgotten to arrange a meeting with the surgeon at Addenbrooke’s hospital. (Addenbrookes is a hospital in Cambridge affiliated with Cambridge University. It specialises in neurosurgery, transplants and cancer treatments among others). Richard was a little disappointed. His GP (General Practitioner/local doctor) has been comforting and supportive however, and Richard feels a little more positive about it all.
Prosaically, I have had a sore and bleeding nose for the past month and I had it cauterized on Thursday with silver nitrate. I have also a dry patch in my throat which may be connected to the nose infection and may be something else. The GP thinks it may be burning from reflux acid and has doubled my prescription of gastro-inhibitor which I take against the side effects of ibruprofen etc! I know that I don’t get heartburn and told the GP so but he wants to rule it out as a cause of the throat problem so I have to take the tablets which have caused upset stomach! Life (and doctors) can be extremely tedious sometimes.
My sister, who is a paramedic and has recently got a degree from university which makes her a practitioner (she can now prescribe drugs and treatment), has been presented an award at work for leadership skills. I am very proud of her and the award is well deserved.
My brother stayed the night with us on Wednesday and visited Mum on Thursday. He has obtained a transfer at work and starts his new job in three weeks time but still hasn’t got a buyer for his house. He has seen a new house he would love but is afraid he won’t be able to have it if he can’t sell his old house very soon.
Alice, my eldest daughter, still hasn’t got a full-time job, not through want of trying. She has the date of her Viva – the spoken part of her PhD – which will be on the 23rd April. She is nervous about it but it will be such a relief to get it all over and done with. She is very poor at the moment and I know is not eating enough. I sent her some money the other day but I realise it won’t go very far.
Saturday was very gloomy and windy with occasional drizzle during the day which developed into rain by evening with very strong gusts of wind. I ironed for most of the day.

The front ditch that flows into the corner pond. We have ditches circling most of our garden – almost like a moat!
Sunday was very bright and sunny again but the wind was still strong. We went to our church at Rumburgh for Morning Prayer. Unfortunately, there were only five of us there including Maurice who took the service. We discussed everyone’s ill health – as one does! Our Rector has had his heart operation but there have been complications and he is still quite unwell; we pray for his speedy return to full health.
I did some more tidying in the garden during Sunday afternoon. I had discovered some daffodil bulbs a couple of days ago that I had removed from a flowerbed last autumn because of over-crowding and then forgotten about. The poor things were trying to grow so I have planted them alongside one of our hedges. Fortunately they are late flowering bulbs and as tough as old boots so they should do well. I also tidied up lots of pots and tubs full of spring and summer bulbs that I had stored behind the greenhouse. They were a bit weed-covered and the voles/mice and birds had been having fun with some of them. Stinging nettles were starting to invade the area where the pots had been so I pulled quite a few out and will keep my eye on any new shoots appearing in the next few weeks. Nettles are easy to pull out at this time of year especially with our saturated soil – thick gloves are necessary though!
Today started with frost and clear skies but by mid-morning we had had a couple of showers of rain and the wind had picked up again so much that the top of my bird-table was blown off. It flew through the air and embedded itself in the lawn. I am glad no-one was in its path! Elinor went back to college today but only has classes during the morning on a Monday. I shopped in Bungay and just had time to put the groceries away and put some laundry in the washing machine before I had to return to Norwich to collect her. This afternoon we had hail, sleet and wet snow showers and then more sunshine. March has come in like a lion – will it go out like a lamb? The forecast is for cold nights and windy weather for the next few days and then warmer weather with the winds coming up from the Azores instead of from Canada for the weekend. We shall see!
So much news,Clare. I pray good things for you and your family. My favorite photo was the stepping stones. That is such lush grass for winter! Do you know its name?
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Thank-you, Aggie. I think the grass is mainly rye grass but we didn’t sow it so we don’t really know. The temperature hasn’t been low enough for most of the winter to stop it growing and because of the amount of rain we have had and the high water-table we haven’t been able to mow it for months. The ground is too boggy and wet to put a mower on it so it is very shaggy and unkempt. I have used hand shears to chop at the worst of it! Half the world has too much rain and the other half has too little.
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lol. I am in the midst of this permaculture design course where they teach that “order in nature is chaos, and apparent chaos is order.” In other words, we spend a lot of energy creating order in our eyes, and nature keeps trying to restore the chaos that is really orderly.
It makes sense that it would be rye growing in winter. And our little water retaining spots always have a beautiful green grass while the rest is brown.
So you have had a warm winter, and we have been breaking 120 year old records for cold for the past couple of weeks. Ah, Nature!
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Nature, indeed! This winter hasn’t been as warm as last – at least we have had a little sleet and snow.
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You’re putting a lot of work into your garden now, the results will be worth it this summer when everything is blooming! It’s still too cold here for anything to grow, so I’ll have to admire your early spring flowers which are gorgeous.
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Thank-you Jerry. The weather was too wet and miserable during the late autumn when we should have been doing this tidying, but it’s getting done now!
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Spring! Gorgeous 🙂
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Thank-you! It is!
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I’m sorry to hear about Richard’s diagnosis, Clare. Hopefully with the proper medication, there will be a slow progression.
Your garden is so beautiful. Thanks for sharing your photos, they help me get through until our flowers begin to bloom.
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Thank-you so much Jill! Once Richard gets his medication he should be alright. He will also get proper advice on diet, exercise etc which should help too. We are waiting now to find out whether the surgeon thinks he should have the operation to remove the tumour on his pituitary gland. This is hanging over us a bit at the moment as you can imagine.
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Warm spicy yeast bun–yummy. 😀 I am so envious of your weather and spring flowers, Clare. I’ve given up on spring arriving here.
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Poor you! I will try to send warm spring breezes in your direction!
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Oh Clare, you have an awful lot to cope with right now. A whole afternoon in your garden sounds like great progress and thank you too for showing the large pond, its very large!
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Thank-you Julie. I am hoping that I will be able to spend some time this weekend in the garden too, if the forecast for warmer, dryer weather is correct! The pond is big but as it is the size it is it needs less work than a smaller one. About this time last year we had a landscaper do some work on it – digging out some of the willow etc. You wouldn’t know anything had been done looking at it now! The willow is back with a vengeance and Richard is tempted to use stump-killer but as it is so close to open water that isn’t recommended. We could harvest the willow wands and give them away/sell them? The time it takes to cut them down is very great though. Perhaps ‘Cut Your Own’ like Pick Your Own strawberries etc? It’s probably the wrong type of willow 😦
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I’m glad that winter is racing past for someone! My problem is spring is my favorite season so of course winter drags on because I’m clock watching.
The scent of our native witch hazel always reminds me of clothes that have hung on a line to dry. Kind of a clean linen scent, like a summer breeze.
I hope your and your husband’s medical issues will all turn out well soon. I’ve never heard of anything like your nose problem. It sounds both annoying and painful.
You’ll never know how much I wish I hand ponds like that in my yard. The first thing I’d do is fill them with water lilies and other aquatics. It was great to see your flowers. I hope those hyacinths have a great scent that wafts through the house!
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Thank-you, Allen. I am so sorry spring is still far off for you. If I could, I would send some of our warmer weather to you. Your Witch-hazel scent sounds wonderful! I will try to get an American plant (ours is Hammamelis mollis I think).
The trouble with discomfort anywhere in the head region is you can’t ignore it or rest it! I have to go back and see the doctor again soon and try to resolve the problem somehow.
Our big pond does have white water lilies in it but they are so vigorous they are threatening to take over and the roots are so deep they are difficult to reduce. As well as this pond and the corner pond we have a little man-made pond that desperately needs renovation. I hope to get it done this year. It needs a new liner and instead of a path of flagstones all round as it has now, I want a bog garden at the side of it where we can put iris and lobelia and other bog-loving plants. I can’t wait!
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Thank you Clare, maybe you did send some warmth our way-it reached almost 50 degrees f here today!
Your ideas about the pond sound like the same things I would do. One pond I built had a shelf that was about 8 inches under the water surface for bog lovers.
I hope the doctor can do something for you. I agree, anything to do with the head is hard to ignore.
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Thanks Allen. I am pleased that maybe Spring isn’t that far away from you now.
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It is a pity that ibruprofen which is so useful has such bad effects. I had to stop taking it for my knee after only a few weeks as it started to give me a bad stomach.
Your path cleaning work is magnificent.
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Thank-you! The garden looks well cared for when we have tidied the paths and cut the grass. If the rain stays away as forecast we may be able to do something about the long grass this weekend.
Ibruprofen is in a couple of the drugs I have to take and has already done some damage to my stomach, in that I have difficulty eating certain foods (salads especially). I have no trouble eating cake and biscuits!
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The turn of the seasons often seems a fragile time for health; we are somehow still a little frost tender. And underlying long term conditions are more easily bruised at this time. I am sorry to hear about your husband’s osteoporosis. But now there is a diagnosis it can be managed. I am wishing your daughter all the best for her Viva, and hoping the waiting time will not be too stressful. And I wonder if that clematis will surprise you by blooming. Sometimes an unorthodox pruning works wonders. 🙂
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Thank-you! I have had to cut the clematis back like this before though I did it after it flowered as I was supposed to. I am sure it will be fine and will probably flower this year too, though a little late! Thank-you too, for your good wishes for my daughter. I am sure she will do well, though it is difficult for her to get enthusiastic about the project when she finished the writing part some months ago. I doubt she has thought much about it since!
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Yes that is one of the difficulties with the Viva, often being so distant in time from the written thesis.
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Lovely photographs Clare and may the Ides of March blow gently around your life in Suffolk. 🙂 x
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Thank-you Jane! What a lovely thing to say – how kind. 🙂 x
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With all things going on in your life, your garden is the place to be to heal body, mind and spirit. Oh, I could almost feel the gentle Spring breeze and smell the tender fragrance that comes with it. What a lovely start of the day, I look outside and there is snow, rain, freezing fog…sigh. take good care and please more of those Spring images! xoxoxo Johanna
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Thank-you Johanna! Spring is definitely here but we are still having frosts and lots of hail yesterday too. I hope your spring comes quickly now.
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hi Clare, I’ve finally found my way back to your lovely blog. I hope you found the church service a real help despite the lack of other people (sometimes I like our church more when there are less people 🙂 ). Your garden looks wonderful – as a previous person said in a comment – a good place to soothe away stress and anxiety. i hope you are soon off the tablets that seem to be causing more trouble.
I really understand your brother’s worry about selling a house and finding somewhere. It is just a horrible process.
Now I need to get a withch hazel – it looks stunning. I have that book too!
I’ll be praying for your family – and you too – hope you are loads better soon. x
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Thank-you, Rachel. I am going to see the nurse tomorrow to talk about cholesterol levels 😦
The service was very good. The elder who took it is a good preacher and chose his prayers carefully. Hymn singing when there are only four of you is a little difficult!
I have had my witch-hazel for about seven years. I expect I could plant it out in the garden as we do have slightly acidic soil in places but it also needs a very sheltered position and we don’t have much shelter in the garden. I used to have the pot further away from the house but it kept losing branches in the wind (the reason it is such a strange shape!)
Thank-you for your prayers. xx
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Thanks for the advice about a sheltered spot for witch hazel. Our garden is not all that sheltered so a pot by our front door might be the way to go. I hope you get on well at the doctors – will it mean more tablets or less yummy food?
about the singing – I hadn’t thought about the difference less people make to the singing! My husband sings quite loudly and fairly well so i just follow his lead 🙂
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Less yummy food I suspect:( Richard and I both sing fairly loudly when we have too but it is fairly obvious if we make a mistake!
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I hope the general state of health improves for all and that Alice has luck getting a job.
My most recent gardening success has been the removal of the leaves with my new rake. One day I’m going to be adept at this gardening lark. Your pictures as always are inspirational.
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How kind, Kate! New gardening tools always do encourage us to do a little gardening. A little bit of sunshine and warmth helps too:)
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Fantastic series of photos, the Viburnum bodnantense against that clear blue sky is exquisite. Sorry to hear you’ve not been well recently, wishing you a speedy recovery 🙂 xx
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Thank-you, Becky! I hope all will be well soon too.
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