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We have had a very busy few weeks here with very little time for relaxation. We are all rather tired and stressed and could do with a holiday (or a few weeks at home with nothing to do!), though there is little chance of that just yet.
All the planned work in this first phase of house renovation has been done and we are very pleased with the results. The new windows, doors and garage doors are looking good and the house and garage are feeling much warmer. We still have a little sorting out to do in the garage and a few more trips to the tip and charity shops with the things we no longer need. There is a little room at the back of the garage which had a toilet and wash-hand basin in it which we never used. We had the plumbing removed shortly after Christmas and Richard painted the room last week. He has bought some shelves for it and we hope it will be a good storage room for the bird-seed and fruit and vegetables. It has a window which we hope to brick up and put in a vent in its place. For now we will put a screen against the window to prevent the light getting in.
We worked very hard to get the house ready for the work and it was worth the trouble we took. Most of the time there was just one window fitter – a very pleasant, hard-working man who was so proficient and tidy it was a pleasure to have him here. He let us know which rooms he would be working on during the following day so we prepared by moving furniture and covering everything we could with dust sheets. While he worked on one room we got the next ready and so we progressed round the house. He was here for five days and on his last day with us he was joined by a colleague and together they replaced the Velux window in Elinor’s room. It was unfortunate that the weather wasn’t very nice that day with snow, sleet, hail and rain showers and it took some time for Elinor’s room to warm up again. We supplied the men with plenty of hot tea to help them keep warm!
I washed, dried and ironed lots of pairs of curtains and also took the opportunity to launder other furnishings too. I feel I made a good start to my spring cleaning!
Elinor took her two mock maths GCSE exams the same week that we had most of the window work done. (She is re-taking her maths because the grade she got last year wasn’t good enough). She also handed in her art project work that she had been working on since Christmas. She got a pass mark for the art (there are only two marks she could have got – a pass or a referral) and she got a ‘C’ for her maths which has pleased us all. If she gets a ‘C’ grade when she takes her exams for real in the summer it will mean she has the minimum grade all colleges and employers demand. She won’t ever have to go to a Maths class again or take any more maths exams. (A sigh of relief from Elinor!)
I now feel I must say how much I appreciated all your kindnesses when I spoke of the death of my aunt – I was most touched; thank-you. The funeral went very well and was a very satisfying celebration of her life. It was good to see my brother, sister and all my cousins and their families and to re-visit Kent and Crockham Hill, the village where my Aunt Marie and Uncle Fred lived for so many years. Aunt Marie had moved away into sheltered accomodation after Uncle Fred died.
It was sleeting and snowing as I set off for my brother’s house that morning and that continued until my brother had driven us to the Suffolk/Essex border when the clouds began to break up. When we got to Westerham in Kent where we stopped for coffee, the sun had come out. My cousin had arranged a lovely buffet meal for us all after the funeral in The Royal Oak, Uncle Fred’s local pub.
The Fens in Cambridgeshire seen from the window of the train I took to Sheffield.
I travelled to Sheffield by train so that I could see Alice in her production of Agatha Christie’s ‘And Then There Were None’. The play was excellently performed by all the cast and I enjoyed it very much. I stayed at Alice’s house overnight and met one of her housemates and also Alice’s cat, Mona. Alice and I breakfasted in the city next morning before I caught my train back home.

These life-size figures stand outside the station and are rather a disparate group. Admiral Lord Nelson on the left; born in Norfolk and was a great Naval commander during the Napoleonic Wars and was killed during the Battle of Trafalgar – Edith Cavell; born in Norfolk and was executed during WW1 for helping allied soldiers escape from occupied Belgium – Stephen Fry; born in London though grew up in Norfolk and is an actor, writer, presenter, activist and ‘National Treasure’.
I saw quite a lot of my mother during the middle of February as she had a number of appointments to keep ( two hospital appointments in Norwich and two with her local doctor) and a fair amount of shopping to do. Elinor and I had a meeting at her college to discuss her support needs for her next academic year and to deal with any support problems she has this year. I had been looking forward to Elinor’s half-term holiday but as the window replacement carried on into that week and as we had other duties to perform it wasn’t as restful as I’d hoped. Elinor had a hair appointment on the Thursday and we had planned to go with her and have lunch out in the city. Unfortunately, I woke with a migraine and had to spend most of the day in bed. Richard took Elinor to Norwich and they had lunch in a café. Richard brought me back a lovely couple of presents.
I love the design on the tote bag! It is by the artist Amelia Bowman and is a view across the roofs of the market towards the castle. The book is also just what I need for my visits to the churches in the city.
We have managed two short walks; one at the RSPB reserve at Minsmere and the other in Tyrrels Wood which lies to the north of Diss and Harleston in Norfolk. Neither of the walks were particularly interesting but we were out in the fresh (very fresh and cold!) air and were taking some exercise.
A slideshow of some small but quite interesting things!
Our walk in Tyrrels Wood was less pleasant as it was so very muddy and we were disappointed by the state it was in. There was a quantity of litter in the wood, especially near the entrance and it was obvious that the wood is used by dog-walkers. We had to watch where we walked! In this country it is illegal to allow one’s dog to foul a public area and not clean up after it. I am surprised that a large organisation like the Woodland Trust is happy to leave the wood in this condition.

The spotted leaves of Lords and Ladies/Jack-in-the-Pulpit (Arum maculatum) next to Dog’s Mercury (Mercurialis perennis)

An ancient coppice stool. This group of trees was once one tree but through repeated coppicing (cutting back the tree to near ground level to let new shoots re-grow) it has become a group of trees with a shared root system.
And now for my music selection! A little trip down memory lane to the summer of 1978 when I was nearly 20 years old and fancy-free.
Thanks for visiting!
Stephen Fry! How strange – I was just, just on youtube watching a “Twelfth Night’ with him as Malvolio and Mark Rylance as Olivia – hilarious!! Anyway, I’m glad your home improvements have been going so well.
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Thank-you Lisa! Mark Rylance is such a good actor – one of my favourites. I don’t think I’ve seen the ‘Twelfth Night’ with him and Stephen Fry in. I must look that one up.
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I don’t know if the entire play is there – it may be only certain scenes, but worth looking up. 🙂
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Thank-you Lisa!
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What an eclectic mix of characters hail from Norwich! I love the idea of them all standing there; imagine the conversation!?
Glad the window replacement went well. Fingers crossed for the end being in sight for Elinor and Maths. Having had one who struggled with exams in general, it was a huge huge relief when they disappeared off his radar and he could start living his life!
And Baker Street!! Now, that brings back memories 🙂
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Thank-you! Those characters are all so different – I also tried to imagine what they would all say to each other!
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My goodness, you have been busy. I love the idea of having a storage room (almost a cold storage room, I am guessing.) Hopefully with the windows done with you will be ready (once you are rested) to enjoy the garden. 🙂
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Thank-you Ann! I do so look forward to being able to do some gardening! The weather is so uncongenial at the moment though – I have to wait just a little longer! I hope the new storage room will be suitable – we will have to see if it is cool enough. We have nowhere suitable in the house to keep our fruit and vegetables – either the fridge (too cold for most things) or the kitchen (too warm and bright)!
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I have exactly the same problem with my fruit and vegetables. 😦
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What a busy life you lead, glad the house and garage are giving you pleasure with all the improvements. I liked the slideshow of small things too.
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Thank-you Susan. We do like our new windows and doors but my greatest pleasure comes from knowing it is done at last!
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A very busy time indeed! I’m glad for you that the home improvements went as smoothly as they did, and that you’re pleased with the results. I’m sure that your home feels even more homey without the drafts from the old windows and doors.
Congratulations to Elinor for taking another step forward, or should I say a leap forward. And, it was very nice of Richard to have brought home a few presents for you while you were under the weather.
I hope that the weather is warming up there, and that you’ll now have more time to be out relaxing, for it does a person a world of good, even if the walks weren’t interesting as you say, but I found the photos very interesting.
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Thank-you Jerry. Your comments are always so kind and thoughtful. I think that spring is on it’s way but the weather is more wintry now than all through the winter! The birds are singing and building nests and the spring flowers are emerging but we are cold and wet and the hail and sleet showers keep coming down! I am hoping we can get out for a few more walks now as I definitely have cabin-fever!
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You have been busy, for sure–I don’t even know where to start in responding! I must’ve missed the post about your aunt so let me add my condolences . . . but I’m glad it at least gave you a chance to get caught up with other family. That happens in my family, too–we see each other at weddings and funerals . . . .
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Yes – weddings and funerals…. more funerals than weddings, unfortunately!
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Good for you – it’s so satisfying, if a little nerve wracking, to get renovations done to the house. Especially ones that mean you can use a space for another, more practical, use. I like that you posted a photo of your Aunt and Uncle from their youth – a time when they were young and healthy. I like to think of myself as a responsible dog owner and I’m often horrified by how some treat natural areas like yours in such a careless way – just so hard to understand. Looks like spring might be on the way, if a little damply, in your part of the world.
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Thank-you. Yes, spring is on the way though tonight it is hard to believe with more sleet and hail showers. The weather is colder and more wintry now than it was all through December and January. We don’t have a dog though we have had dogs in the past and we would never have been as careless or irresponsible as many other dog-owners seem to be. We feel the same way about leaving litter in public places.
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A very nice selection of ‘interesting things’
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Thank-you.
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Wow! You have been busy, Clare. I’m so happy your renovations are completed and you’re pleased with the results. Congratulations to Elinor! I feel her pain when it comes to math…never my best subject.
Thanks for sharing your gorgeous photographs, Clare. Have a great week!
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Thank-you Jill – I will pass your congratulations on to Elinor 🙂 I hope your week is a good one too!
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Thank you! xo
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xo
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I’d bet that you’re glad that’s over no matter how smoothly it went. It’s always a bit tiring to have workmen in the house.
Congratulations to Elinor. Even though I’m a mechanical engineer I’ve never liked math either, but it’s a necessary evil. I much prefer art like she does!
The room at the back of the garage sounds like it would make a good root cellar of sorts, where root vegetables that like it cool could be stored. That’s a great idea for an unused space.
I love the shots of the forest and the slide show, and Baker Street is one of my favorite songs.
I can’t imagine why they would keep cutting a tree back to the ground to get new shoots unless the shoots produced something, like cork or nuts or maple sap.
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I have found this link for you as it explains coppicing far better than I could ever do!
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Coppicing
Basically, the shoots/new tree-trunks are used as a crop and it depends on the tree as to how often it is coppiced. A small piece of woodland is often called a copse and it was only fairly recently I realised that the name comes from coppice and is therefore a coppiced wood!
We are hoping that the room in the garage will be cool enough. I had hoped to insulate the room but apparently there are problems involved with this procedure. We will see.
I am more pleased that the work is over at last than pleased with the result, though the result is pleasing!
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Thanks very much for the link Clare, it was really interesting! I’m not sure why I didn’t guess that they were trying to increase the amount of wood. We don’t have to coppice here that I know of. We have close to 5 million acres of forest right here in New Hampshire.
One of those “MIN / MAX” thermometers would show how much the temperature fluctuates in the new room.
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I will invest in a thermometer! I am sure if I was surrounded by millions of acres of forest (almost unimaginable to me!) I would never have guessed that wood was at a premium elsewhere!
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Baker Street, is a song that brings so many wonderful memories back for me Clare, I lived in London then and had very little to worry about! Great choice! Love the photograph of your Aunt Marie with Uncle Fred and glad to hear the funeral went smoothly. Also very glad to hear Alice’s play went well and that you enjoyed yourself, I can imagine how proud you were. Good luck with the rest of your house projects.
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Thank-you very much Julie. Yes I was very proud of Alice – she looked stunning in her 40’s clothes and she acts so well I forget she’s my daughter! I am pleased you liked Baker Street – I was working in London at the time and that saxophone riff was playing everywhere I went!
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Oh, what a hectic time, Clare! First, Condolences on the death of your aunt.
So much happening in your family. I’m glad to hear Elinor passed her exams – this is a big deal. And that Alice’s play is excellent. Good that you were able to visit with her.
And the windows look spanking new and nice. I’m glad that you had a real professional to do the work. and yes, I know how much work one has to do before and after they do their renovations, no matter how tidy they are.
As always, you give us a treat — thanks for taking us on your walk, and for the music.
Often when I read your posts, I think: “there’s a book in here”. I thought so again this time. Why? You are so good at weaving the small and big events of family life through the seasons. It’s an interesting, intimate portrait of your family’s life as seen through your eyes. I love it.
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Thank-you so much for your kind compliment. I am sure you have coped with so many renovations and improvements in all your houses! We plan these things and agree how much better the house will be afterwards and (like childbirth) I forget all about the discomfort and lack of privacy. When I realise that the evil day is approaching fast I almost regret having wanted to improve the house. However, now this big job has been done and done nicely I will probably cope better with all the subsequent ones – as long as they aren’t just yet!
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I hear you!
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I thought you would! 😀
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Sounds really busy but glad your trip to the show in Sheffield went well. I used to live there and was at the university for drama teaching!
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How interesting! Alice took her MA in Librarianship at the university and then was asked to research her PhD there. She has been living in the city since September 2009 and loves it there. The drama group she belongs to is The Company and is affiliated to the university and uses the university rehearsal facilities. For your information here is the latest play they have just started working on –
https://www.thecompanysheffield.co.uk/productions/pimpernel/
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Thanks, so exciting to be involved with n Drama. I have been in charge of school libraries most of my teaching life and working closely with school librarians. Love libraries and getting youngsters involved in reading. Good luck to Alice!
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Thank-you!
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Oh goodness that music brings back a lot of memories! A very good choice Clare. Well you certainly have had an extremely busy time so no wonder you are feeling stressed and in need of a break. Perhaps if you are not able to go away you will be able to find some other lovely walks to take us on?! So glad that the renovations on the house are coming along. I never like to have people working in the house as it is just such an upset to the normal routine so I sympathize. How lovely though that you had a pleasant person working there. So glad that the play in Sheffield was a success for Alice and that is wonderful news that Elinor has done so well in her mocks. I always think that you are either a Maths person or you are not, so it will be great if she can pass and then be able to put it behind her.
– Kate xx
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Thank-you Kate. I am hoping that we will be able to have a few walks soon. The days when we have been free to walk the weather has been foul and the best weather has been reserved for the days when we are tied up with other duties. Things will improve soon I’m sure! We were very lucky with the window-fitter – such a nice man. It makes such a difference to the whole experience if the craftsmen are pleasant.
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Blimey that is a lot you’ve had going on. Next time you’re off to Sheffield stop off in Nottingham and see the sights with yours truly! I feel for Elinor, I ended up with a D, despite my best efforts.
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Thank-you Ste. I will certainly take you up on your offer of a tour of Nottingham. I managed to scrape a C for Maths O’ Level all those years ago when I was at school and no-one was more surprised than I was!
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I remember that song well. It does bring back a lot of memories. Thank you for that!
Congratulations to Elinor, and good to hear your house renovations went well! And that is a beautiful photo of your Aunt Marie and Uncle Fred to remember them by. They will have a special spot in my garden as well.
The coppice stool is interesting. I remember reading about them in Roger Deakin’s books. Coppicing and pollarding are not done here anywhere I have come across, and I asked one forester friend about it. They do seem like good methods of management.
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Thank-you Lavinia. Allen also remarked on coppicing and gave a logical reason for it not being done in the States – you have so many trees that it isn’t necessary! I am pleased you remembered the Gerry Rafferty song – he had such a relaxed way of singing and a lovely voice.
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Dear Clare,
I’ve had slow/barely existent internet service at home for the last few days so I have a lot of catching up to do with blog reading, so I’m sorry I am late commenting.
You’ve been so very busy lately. I don’t know how you manage it really. It sounds like you struck gold with the tidy and communicative window fitter, but of course I’m sure it helped his mood that you provided tea and friendly words! Tradesmen are lucky to have such nice people to work for.
Well done on your daughter’s practice results! I wish her well on her real exams. I know how anxiety-inducing exams can be, especially when they are topics one finds challenging!
Thank you for all the delightful pictures and news from your life, Clare. It’s a joy to read your updates, although I do get concerned that you have far too much to do!
Have a beautiful week. 🙂
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Thank-you so much Jane. You have no need to apologise – I know what it is like to have slow/non-existent internet. We had weeks of it last year until we changed our provider.
I often think I have too much to do 😀 but I am sure there are plenty of people far worse off than I am.
I have had much more to do since my husband retired – I had been led to believe that life would be calmer and I’d have more rest. Don’t you believe it!!
I hope you have a beautiful week too! 🙂
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Dear Clare, busy times indeed…good things, and less good things! Hurray for Elionor passing maths (impossible subject really in my opinion;o)) and Alice in my favorite Agatha Christie!!! Sorry to hear about your aunt. But yes, it is true that funerals are often also family reunions…lovely photos as always too. xo Johanna
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Thank-you very much Johanna!
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Gosh Clare you do need a rest, it will be much nicer when the clocks go forward in a few weeks and days seem longer even though they’re not.
Super news about Elinor I remember the BBC Bite Size revision really well!
Keep well 🙂
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Thank-you Charlotte! I look forward to the lighter evenings too 🙂
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Your aunt and uncle look like so happy and lovely in that photo. 🙂
I would love to visit Minsmere, although I have to admit, most of my knowledge of the place comes from watching spring watch, lol.
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Thank-you C! I love the photo of my aunt and uncle – they were so young then! Minsmere is worth a visit even if you aren’t that interested in birds. There is woodland, heathland, marshland and seashore and there are lots of animals to see all years round. We regularly see a large herd of red deer there and the current excitement is a family of otter pups!
http://www.rspb.org.uk/community/placestovisit/minsmere/b/minsmere-blog/archive/2016/03/05/otter-madness.aspx
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Thank you for the link. So cute, I’ll keep that blog address to keep visiting :).
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You are busy, you are updating us, and we are coming along for the ride, Clare! I like the photos you took from the window of the train – let’s travel together 😉 🙂
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Thank-you very much Christy!
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Busy times! Made me feel tired just reading about your activities. At one time you could see the sheds of the Frederick Sage aircraft works from the train at Peterborough, but that was 30 years ago and things do change.
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Thank-you! I fairly recently took a train journey going south-east out of London along a line I used to use regularly until about 30 years ago; I found it hard to recognise anything on the route!
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Good morning, Clare. Just stopped in to see how you’re doing. Your Aunt Marie looks like an Aunt of mine who has passed and your photo brought back lovely memories of her. 🙂
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Thank-you Elizabeth. I am so pleased you stopped in! 🙂
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It was so nice reading your post and seeing the photographs of Norwich and the train ride to Sheffield! I hope someday I am able to visit the beautiful UK countryside!! And, BTW Baker St is one of my favourite songs!!!! 🙂
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I am so glad! Thank-you!
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Clare, I am sorry to come so late to this lovely post. I hope by now that things have started to calm down for you. As ever, it is super to see such a fabulous set of photos which really gives a sense of all the various aspects of your busy life. X
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Thank-you Liz! Still very busy unfortunately but great progress is being made so I mustn’t grumble ( except I do at every opportunity! ) xx
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Always nice to have a good grumble! Soothing for the soul 🙂 xxx
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It is – though not for my husband’s! 😉
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Lol!
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Things come and go… and life is worth living… regardless of changes and people who leave us, they are with us in spirit and that´s a good way to immortalize their presence…
Congrats to your daughter on her improvements in Maths… It was very difficult to me when I was at High School… but not required to enter University… Agatha Christie’s ‘And Then There Were None’. It sounds stunning, cheers to Alice for that play.
As always, a wonderful retelling my friend… I truly enjoyed this one…
Wishing you a very nice weekend ahead. All the best to you!, Aquileana 😀
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Thank-you Amalia. My aunt had a very strong personality and won’t be forgotten soon.
Have a lovely weekend my dear!
Clare xx
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A group of us from work went to see ATTWN and all agreed Alice was brilliant.
I was so pleased for her when she got her promotion, and she puts the rest of us scruffs to shame with her fabulous frocks! 🙂
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Thank-you so much for taking the time to comment, Viv. She puts me to shame too! 🙂
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